Anne Lamott 2.0: Why I’m Starting to Dig This Blogging Thing

First of all, thank you to all who sent me kind words or plain ol’ “likes” on my last post. I was (obviously) feeling pretty down about my dog and my book and my responses to both. One wonderful response came from my friend Shan Jeniah Burton, who quoted Vulcan wisdom to me:

“You are very adept at listing the questionable decisions you’ve made. But there have been other decisions – many of them – that no one would question. ”

Thanks, SJ. I call her SJ. I have NO IDEA if anyone else does, because, see, we’ve never met. We were both prisoners students in Kristen Lamb’s blogging-for-writers class over a year ago (Hotel Californians, we call ourselves, ’cause we can check out any time we like, but…yeah). Now we’re soul sisters…remotely.

This is why I can say with perfect honesty, 14 months since starting that class in order to kick-start my reluctant, anti-blogging self into doing something I was pretty sure authors just needed to suck-it-up-and-DO, I like my blog. I like this weird way of connecting with people. I have made real–not “virtual,” but REAL real–friends this way. Not to mention how lovely it is to re-connect with existing friends through this medium. Way more room to roam than on Facebook.

Then there’s the “please help” aspect. Granted, this works on Facebook and Twitter too, but I’m thinking I’m going to get a much more meaningful and useful response if I try this here on Wing’s World.

Can anyone advise me on how to get in touch with Anne Lamott? Her own blog does not have a “contact me” button (for obvious reasons; she’s a famous gal!). I’ve tweeted her and left a message on her Facebook page, but never heard anything, and I don’t want to be a stalker about it.

See, I wrote a song that I really want her to hear. It’s based on her famous quote about having only two prayers, “Help me help me help me” and “Thank you thank you thank you.” (That was in her book Traveling Mercies. Since then she’s added a third prayer, “Oh, wow,” which I guess is detailed in her book Help, Thanks, Wow, which is on my reading list.)

I started to write a song about that, but the lyrics got intertwined with another story, that of a friend of mine who died of cancer at age 42, just after delivering a baby. I do not know if my friend actually said Annie’s prayers, but the way she lived in her final year made me think that she might have, and so I wrote the song that way.

Here’s my song, “Help Me Help Me, Thank You, Thank You,” from our little Chicken Biscuit concert on Lopez Island, October 2012. I’m backed up by my friend Bruce Creps, who’s a much better guitarist than I am:

I don’t want Annie Lamott to help me “market” this song. I have zero ambitions for a career as a singer-songwriter; my plate is full! I just want her reaction.

So, internet friends and friends-I’ve-already-met-in-the-flesh (’cause “flesh friends sounds REALLY nasty), here’s my question: Can you help me figure out a way to get this song to Anne’s ears? I look forward to your help, advice, or support in this endeavor.

 

6 thoughts on “Anne Lamott 2.0: Why I’m Starting to Dig This Blogging Thing

  1. What a beautiful tribute to your friend, Gretchen! I saw Anne Lamott on Oprah’s Soul Series and I love her prayer, Help, Thanks, Wow! If you subscribe to the 7 Degrees of Kevin Bacon theory, surely someone who knows someone (etc) will know Anne! I can’t wait to find out how long it takes your song to reach her.

  2. Beautiful. And so sad. You have a lovely voice. I’m stumped. I don’t have any idea how to get a famous person to turn their ear your way. I’ll holler if anything strikes me in the wee hours of the night (when I seem to get my best ideas).

  3. I’m going to share this – maybe I know someone who knows someone. I’ll ask the someones I know to pass it on, too…

    You’ve got me thinking -I have a long-lost friend who really was instrumental in helping me shift from the mentality of abuse to claiming my right to live my own life…

    I moved away, and she got married, and I lost touch. I would love to tell her how incredibly amazing a life I live today, and how much of that had to do with her influence….

    Think I’ll write about that, soon! =)

  4. SJ, do! It will feel so good to write. I look forward to reading about it. And thank you for helping in my Annie-search! SOMEone’s got to have a connection somewhere.

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