“Sit in this.” That’s what Lisa Locascio Nighthawk, Dean of Antioch LA’s Masters in Fine Arts in Creative Writing program, told us graduates the day before our ceremony.
Here on Lopez Island, some of my own writing group, the Women Writers of the Salish Sea, had the same advice: “Celebrate your achievement. Write it all down–everything you did!”
I decided to heed all of them. I sat in my achievement for a whole week. I wrote it all down, on a big piece of butcher paper. And I celebrated–with my writer friends, and with cake.
The cake, I made. But the Orange Twists were a special request from me to Iris Graville–as noted in her memoir Hiking Naked: A Quaker Woman’s Search for Balance.
Here’s what’s written on that butcher paper:
- 17 chapters—232 pages, 67,000 words—of my novel-in-progress Who’s a Good Girl (revised multiple times)
- 50 books read (mostly novels; some short stories, nonfiction, and craft books)
- 30 x 3-page literary analyses of fiction
- One 5-page research paper
- One 20-page research paper
- One dozen (approximately) poems translated into English, plus commentary on peers’ translations
- 20 (approximately) critiques of peers’ 20-page fiction submissions in workshop
- 20 book group discussions (of which I led 4)
- 80 weekly email check-in discussions
- Five 3-page self-analyses of learning
- Five 7-page summaries of learning from residency classes
- One 30-minute PowerPoint presentation/seminar
- One 12-minute public reading
- Four 3-page annotated bibliographies
- One 12-page annotated bibliography

While we were noshing & drinking, my friends asked me to reflect on my main takeaways from the past two valuable, packed, and expensive years. Here’s what I came up with:
- My instinct to immerse myself among a community of diverse writers–diverse in EVERY SENSE of the word, from age to class to life experience to race to gender identity, and more–was 100% correct. As a writer, I need to be around people different from myself. (As a human being, it doesn’t hurt either.)
[not pictured: all the diversity at AULA. I don’t like violating people’s privacy in showing photos]
2. Confidence is good, in art. Pride is not. I had to have the latter stripped painfully away before I could soothe the raw spots by applying the former. That’ll be a lifelong engagement.
3. Novelists need the help of other novelists. Poets and nonfiction writers can offer EXTREMELY valuable critique. But in the end…see sentence one.

After a week of “sitting,” though, I’m ready to get back to work. Of course, it’s high summer now–a season that always has other plans for me than writing. But the last thing I learned will get me where I need to go, and that is:
4. Writing is writing. JUST DON’T STOP.
(You other writers: right? Feel free to chime in here with your own Writerly Takeaways.)




















































